Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Well-Seasoned Messages

This week I’m working on a daunting writing project.  Mostly it’s overwhelming because I consider myself more of a speaker than a writer.  Crafting written words continues to be a big learning curve.

It occurs to me,  however, that there is one area in which I’m not struggling.  The message I’m being asked to write is well-seasoned because it’s my personal story.  I don’t have to work at coming up with illustrations since I’ve been living this message most of my life.

Great messages are always well-seasoned, simmered in prayer, time and thought. (Click here to Tweet)

Jennifer Rothschild says we’re to shoot for crock pot messages instead of microwave messages, and I think she has it just right.  As stewards of a message, we need to be learners before we become teachers.  (Click here to Tweet)

For me, that means allowing God to speak to me through His Word–Bible study, commentaries, and much prayer–before I write one word of a message.  The faithfulness of God never ceases to amaze me when I’ll honor Him by humbling myself as a learner.  He brings all kinds of things into my path to season my messages.  There will be a sermon with just the right phrase, a devotion with a heart-rending story, a personal interaction that becomes an application…the list goes on and on.

In this season when we anticipate the fragrances of turkey, stuffing and pumpkin pies wafting from our laden kitchens, let’s determine to create well-seasoned messages. The Master Chef can be counted on to make them irresistibly  tasty to our audiences!


Note:  I wrote about how I’m learning more and more about the craft of writing.  Today I didn’t intend to do a plug for Compel , Proverbs 31 Ministries’ new subscription writing training,  but I can’t help myself.  I am a subscriber, and I cannot begin to tell you how much the lessons from Lysa TerKeurst, Lisa Allen and Glynnis Whitwer are helping me.  Please, please take a few minutes to take a tour of the information page.  I think this is a tremendous opportunity and value for writers at all stages.

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Tuesday, October 29, 2013


A truth I already believed was reinforced at my speaking event this weekend.

Authenticity is powerful.

In the middle of one of my points, I felt God’s gentle nudge to share a personal story about a painful event in my family.  Even as I told it, I felt a familiar inner resistance.  It’s the part of me that wants to hide and protect.  It wasn’t until after the event I knew for sure that I had actually been following God.

Three women approached me to talk.  One woman has a painful story of her own, but she hasn’t told it yet.  Just like I have, however, she has experienced healing and the power of God in such a way to compel her to share.  I was able to encourage her to seek God about His timing and perfect opportunities to share.

Another woman wanted to thank me for being “real”.  She said often she’s reluctant to even come to women’s events, because she just can’t connect to speakers who appear to have it all together.  The thing that struck me as we talked is how many other women probably consider her as someone who wouldn’t struggle with comparison.  She herself is lovely on the outside, involved in ministry and connected in the church.  It reminded me of how we ALL have places of insecurity and comparison

The third woman is currently going through the same issue I told the story about.  I was able to share and encourage her that there is something good coming from this distressing experience. I told her the follow-up on my family’s journey and how God was able to further strengthen us through the hard season.

These interactions are pictures of why I believe vulnerability and authenticity are so powerful.

1.  Authenticity shatters the foundation of negative comparisons.  As my friend Renee Swope says, “When we compare, we compare our insides to others’ outsides.”  We break down wall-generating comparisons when we’re willing to turn ourselves inside-out.  When we share our own insecurities, hurts and failures, we then get to paint God as the ultimate hero He is. (Click here to tweet this.)  It puts all of us humans in a place of awe on the level ground of the cross.

2.  Telling our stories is part of the redemption of those very stories.  Do you have a place in your past that you’ve hidden?  When a secret is exposed, it gives the story the chance to be part of someone else’s healing.  Amazingly, offering your vulnerability for someone else’s gain becomes part of our own healing.  What a beautiful cycle!  Full redemption comes when the pain of telling our story becomes less than the joy received from seeing others’ freed by it. ( to tweet this.)

Have you seen examples of the power of authenticity in your own writing and speaking?  We’d love to hear your stories!


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Tuesday, August 6, 2013

One Important Thing

Sometimes it’s the simplest truths that resound the loudest.  That’s how I felt when I attended Micca Campbell and Wendy Blight’s breakout session at She Speaks called “Your Most Important Message”.

The truth is this:  Being called into a gospel ministry means that you should share the Gospel.

Now I know this may sound like a no-brainer, but how often do we forget?  It’s easy to get caught up in sharing our latest and greatest understanding of scripture or life transformation without sharing about the highest calling of all–relationship with Jesus.

Micca and Wendy used pieces of their personal messages to illustrate two powerful ways of weaving in the Gospel message.

Use Scripture:  Maybe you haven’t revisited delivering a basic salvation message using scripture in a long time.  I watched as Micca effortlessly and comfortably shared a series of memorized scriptures to illustrate how Jesus takes us from our lost and sinful state and brings us into a limitless relationship with Him.  It was beautiful, poignant reminder that there is power in God’s Word.

If you need a little refresher, click here to read Campus Crusade’s Four Spiritual Laws or to review salvation’s plan woven through the book of Romans.

To read Micca’s story of how God’s Word was her rock when she became widowed at 21, read her book  An Untroubled Heart.

Use Your Story:  I’ve heard it said that sharing our personal salvation story is one of the most powerful ways to share relationship with Jesus, because no one can argue with what you’ve experienced.  I listened to Wendy’s story of her youthful salvation and then how she survived a horrific rape only to struggle through to a new understanding of the reality of Jesus.  It was real, and it was powerful.  (You can read her story in Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner.)

Your story is powerful too even if you’ve told it hundreds of times.

Psalm 116:1314 says, “I will lift up the cup of salvation and call on the name of the Lord.  I will fulfill my vows to the Lord in the presence of all his people.”  I think one of the vows we need to make is to take every opportunity to offer salvation to our audiences.  We need to make Jesus the hero of every message and bring weary hearts to Him.  It really is our most important message.

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Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Q & A Three

Last week of Q & A vlogs! If you’re a subscriber, just click here to watch.

I’m so thankful you joined us the last few weeks.

Could I ask you a big favor, Speaker Girls? This week is She Speaks, Proverbs 31 Ministries’ yearly conference for speakers, writers and leaders. Would you pray for all the women who are coming with God-given dreams in their hearts? And for our conference staff? And all the MANY details? I love you forever, friends, and I hope I’ll get a chance to meet you all face-to-face over the years at She Speaks!

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